Getting Tired of Trying- any advice?

[MarkG]

You don't need a D to move on to a healthier life. A D is a paper, much like a M is a paper. A friend of mine who is D once told me "rings don't plug holes" - omg the truth in that sentence, sorry if it's too blunt. He applied it to his W, this applies to guys too but IDK in what literal context... anyways, logistics of that quote are besides the point. A M license won't stop a cheater, and the absence of a D paper can't stop you from detaching, GAL, and setting boundaries. If he's already starting to come around it sounds like you're a lot closer than most of us, but read up early on in my sitch, there's a too soon to jump back into their arms when you think they are ready. I fell into this after she left her OM, it worked to have contact with her for a short time & she cut ties with him for while, but my pursuing too quickly made her do a 180 to her 180 and she's right back with the same OM. But I suppose it's past my bedtime, as I said in my thread already, so gnite and ttyl.