Just catching up on your thread as I've been out for a bit. Sorry to hear about what has been going on lately with you. I second the advice Antlers has been giving you. If it's any solace, I've been having some similar issues with stuff breaking around here that I've either fixed or paid to have fixed. When it rains it really does pour.
I have more to say about your recent events but it's late and I am bushed- been very busy at work, at the house and with the D stuff. I'll try to pop back in when I get a chance. Do not beat yourself up over what you read in that email. I've had several friends and acquaintances in the Family Law arena who have all said that divorcing women in particular will lie like a rug to anyone who will listen to them about how supposedly "bad" their ex-husbands were- in every respect. Making the first guy they are with feel like Mr. Big Shot at the expense of their ex-husband (and the truth) is part of their shtick- you just have to recognize it for what it is.
Take care and I'll talk to you soon.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
