Finding that balance between "caretaking", "mothering" vs. being supportive and caring is hard...
I'm trying to use this guideline with H: "would a good friend do this?". A good friend would show concern about H's health. A good friend wouldn't remind him about some specific advice that he had received about how to manage his condition like I did the other day.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
