He's full of chit, and you know that. Do NOT let him, in his fogged-out, poor-character, define YOU.
I know it hurts, but this is all 'SCRIPT'. My wife told me, at various times after serving her, that she "hated" me, that I "made her physically ill," that she "would never, EVER stay married to me" (this was 2-1/2 years ago,
Your husband is feeling angry, embarrassed, guilty and entitled -- all mixed into one. Meaning you and/or sitch are starting to "get" to him! IGNORE HIS TEXTS. Again: Please, PLEASE, PLEASE do this!! Take away this power over you that you voluntarily give to him. If/when you see him, just do the "smile-and-wave" thing that SmileysPerson used to talk about, (or, as I call it, the "stupid-and-cheerful" stance) and the "I'm really sorry you feel that way," and move along.
Seriously, he's not worth your angst right now. He doesn't DESERVE it.
Hugs & Puppy Licks,
Puppy
(((Serenity)))
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
