OK I see you want to keep confidential. However, don't you think OW will be able to get hold of you since she knows your H's contact info? What about getting a new email account on yahoo or something under a different name? Then you can write the letter, with URGENT on the envelope, and then tell him you can be reached at _@yahoo.com

Also, are you planning on saying "your wife is having an affair with my husband. blah blah blah SIncerely, anonymous." Don't you need to give some kind of personal info so he knows you legit?

And mb28, I really really really hope the A ends with exposure. But please do not set your heart 100% on it. It is not guaranteed. But the OWH deserves to know regardless.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004