I thought I was 'done' posting. I'm a pretty private person...so the fact that I posted at all kind of surprised myself. It must be therapeutic is some strange way. I find myself coming back here almost nightly though and reading others stories so thought I'd give a little update on mine!
W decided she would keep the kids on Saturday. As she doesn't work now and really doesn't have a place to live (she is living with her parents now after 1st moving in with OM) she asked if she could stay here with them. I agreed and told her I would 'go out' aka GAL. She agreed....then a couple of days later she asked if I would stay home with her and the kids and we could watch a movie or something. I politely declined and told her I had already made plans. Other than 2 work related outings I have had my girls every weekend since September except once. I felt like I truly needed some 'me' time.
When I came home the next morning she was not happy as she had plans with the OM and I was 'late'. The problem is she never told me about her plans. It just reinforced my decision again.
Funny thing is she calls me yesterday saying she did want to come home, but after what I did to her (not come home until the next day at 10:30 am) she has changed her mind. WTF! Like she now gets to choose or something. Unbeleivable.
BTW Steve - I had the OM listed in the D filing as the father.
