I had to laugh at this one...that is me to a T!!! especially with H being gone all the time. I know, so so bad, but when you watch kiddos all day, it's really easy to be lazy and sleep right until the kids are brought to the door! yep, I'm NOT a morning person, and then you can't take a shower at night because your hair will be yucky the next day...soooooo.....
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
so Mind, you seem to do a lot all the time, but what is it that you really enjoy? what are you passionate about? what makes you feel good about yourself? What Gifts/talents do you have that God has blessed you with that you can share with others?
just some ideas maybe to help you find what you are missing. ???
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
You got it w/the showering!!! Nothing a baseball hat can't fix!
H that travels during the week + job that allows you to work from home + kids that are independent enough to be just "dropped off" at sports practices = Mom being "comfy" a lot! LoL
Hey, I DO shower when H will be home during the week, if I need to be out and about during the day, and/or the boys have an actual sporting event I am going to... So, it really only boils down to a day or two a week w/a baseball hat, and that's just plain casual cool. Ha!
What do I like to do?
WORK - Have not been doing enough though... Changing that today!
LUNCH w/FRIENDS - Doing that today!
WALK w/FRIENDS - Too cold for that today!
BOATING/WATER SPORTS - Too cold for that for awhile!
I kind of forgot what I like to do. I'm always busy w/boys and their sports!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Chicago cagily celebrates the innate (and deeply American) tendency to employ highways as escape routes, ditching old mistakes for new swatches of land, new plates of eggs, new parking lots. It's a beautiful song.
Mindful. Your inner-strength shines through everything you do. Its people like you I admire. Symbolizes to me the strength and anguish that a woman must shoulder alone from time to time in their long beautiful lives.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
