the divorce rate isn't higher because of trust issues,
sorry, I wasn't saying that was the reason for the rate, but the reason that moving on to the next person is not going to make trusting better. and Rob is right, if you remarry someone who is also previously married, then you do become more vulnerable because of the fact that they will D you much easier than they would if you were their first.
But, Rob explained what my point was, that if you don't resolve the problems in the first M, then you will only carry them into any future R's.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
