Had a good meeting tonight, and, by providence, the topic was anger. How appropriate for me.
When I came home, I decided to talk to stbxw about why mediation is not necessary. I explained that I thought it was unnecessary to bring another L into the situation to get us to do what two reasonable adults should be able to do. I also told her I was prepared to mediate if that was the only way she felt we could resolve our differences. She seemed receptive, but we shall see.
And, I am feeling oddly at peace with myself about the discussion with stbxw. Gardener, I thought of you as she talked to me b/c whoever is behind those cold, dead eyes is not the woman I fell in love with and to whom I promised my life.
