Is it just me, or do others realize how ridiculous their situation sounds when its put it in writing? Below are some clarification in response to some of the comments I have received.
Yes, I was the one to move out (smaller less expensive apt). I did this in anticipation of the divorce happening in early January and her being gone the end of January. So far, she has not followed through with the divorce. I am writing the checks for both apartments but we still share a checking account and she is still depositing her paycheck each week (weird huh?).
Instead of moving to another complex, I am considering giving notice for the apartment she lives in. I just signed a lease for my apartment.
I did not mention this in my original post (didn't want it to be too long) but we are each seeing individual counselors. She is dealing with issues not directly related to our marriage (depression, and other stuff). My counselor started out as our marriage counselor.
