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[awest1217]

Oh yeah... the other thing is me being very protective of S. I am the one who has raised him for the past year so I will need to watch and make sure I don't undermine H's relationship with S. Also we have our routine, which is very different from H's. He is more of a night owl so we will need to find a happy medium where S gets to eat, sleep and play when he is used to, but I also get the sleep I need, and H doesn't feel he has to be in bed at 8, but I can go to bed, but trust H is not doing inappropriate things. Man a lot to think about and not a lot of time to work through some of it. Most of it is just piddly stuff like our schedules and S, but they are still important. S and I have our life now and it is very different from what is was one year ago. S is so different. He has a personality now, opinions, can make decisions, talk, remember, etc. Last year he was saying two word sentences, which was great. I remember the first week H was gone, texting him to just say that S recognized the color blue, and now he knows all his colors, shapes, most of his letters, and many of his numbers. Very different world.