Trusting, I think that both of us have done better when we have stayed dark.

I too want to analyze and have a hard time resisting. For example, I can't help but find it interesting that several of us in similar timeframes have seen behavior improvements.

Part of me has not yet let go.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D