Trusting, I think that both of us have done better when we have stayed dark.
I too want to analyze and have a hard time resisting. For example, I can't help but find it interesting that several of us in similar timeframes have seen behavior improvements.
Part of me has not yet let go.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D