Thanks. I'm so happy to hear some recognition of my good work in ODP! Not only did I not bite re: the airplane, I showed positive support! I said, "ooh, how exciting" and listened to his plans. TEchnically, when we get legally separated, his debt is his and mine is mine, so it is his issue. If we reconsile, I want to show support for his dreams. I resisted the urge to say "How in the h*** are you going to afford that?"
He's quite a practical person, so I doubt this will go anywhere anyhow. I saw it as an opportunity to be a supportive partner for his happiness. (patting self on the back)