Do YOU. Do Mind again. Dress in the outsfits you loved to dress in and go somewhere not related to a familiy outing or a game. Of course you have to take care of the boys, so do it when you have time or when your H is at home to take care of them. I am most distressed to read that you feel like a shadow of yourself. You need to get your groove back as they say.
Bring sexy back. Bring Mind back. Gno and Coach are right, do things for yourself, whether or not you are part of a "couple" right now.
