Huge development. The place where H is staying the owners have found renters, and he has to be out by March 15. He said he would like to come home, but doesn't want to hurt me again or still. I said I would like him to come home too, but he is still talking to OW. Plus we only spend one day together and that one day is only for a few hours. Being together every day would be different. He just said I know.
AHH!! I wanted this to happen this summer, but I guess now H really has to choose between me or OW. I need some advice on how to be clear on the boundaries without pushing him away. This is really scary because he hasn't changed the underlying problem. Scary....it is either he comes home or gets an apartment, and I have made it clear if he signs a lease I sign divorce papers because he won't come home then.
The fork is here and one month....AH!
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
