unless you plan to be like Paul (of the bible) and never get involved with someone else, then you will still have to open your heart and be vulnerable to trust again. because the divorce rate for second M's is 60% if not higher.
So, learning from the mistakes of the first M and being able to reconcile with the first, will help make the M stronger.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
