Some feel pressure, both externally and internally to get it over and done w/very quickly. They are the extreme cases that feel the only way that they will ever be happy is to be rid of the entire situation pronto. Also, guilt drives them to do things as well.
Others, well, let's just say that as long as they are not pressure into doing something, they'll continue to walk the path. Also, some are just so happy to straddle the fence and not rock the boat because they have the best of both worlds.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
