No, the addiction to porn and masturbation has always been a problem. What was first sporadic led to a few straight late nights in the home office turned into a nightly event of watching 8-12 news shows on MSNBC/FOX and then late night stuff.
You were jerking off over 4 hours a night to FOX news?
God bless your wife. Let her have her fantasy, she f'ing deserves it. Buy her the plane ticket to California.
I still stand by what I said earlier, get out there start meeting some people. Maybe your wife has been the problem all along.