Calling out the Piecers

[dday101798]

Not much updating.

'Cute' house for rent is pending as they are taking in all applicants and then chosing for the "best fit". We were really hoping to get it. I ended up being the only one of us able to look at it on Saturday as (x)W had to work, but she said she 'trusts my judgement' and that she wouldn't be dissapointed and I could sign the lease on the spot.

Got (x)W's truck registered and insured, all under MY name, so that must say something about her underlying intentions on how long she plans to stick around, eh?

More issues with the boys, mainly attitudes and back talk getting worse, especially S11, he is getting ever more frustrated thinking that S12 "seems to get away with everything". Blach, we just don't know how to handle S12 yet and his wandering off issues other than keep him in sight 24/7, that's it, so really S11 can go off and do whatever he wants, and yet (x)W or I, or both are grounded. We haven't been out alone in almost a month now aside from a luch get-a-way perhaps.

That said, feeling a little 'drifting off' going on between us, but nothing major. I think we're just stressed out trying to find a place and get life moving again.

Then, to make matters worse, I stayed up all Saturday night with (x)BIL from downstate. His wife earlier in the day made reference to how since (x)W and (x)BIL won't return his calls about the house they went in on, OM is pestering her. So this sparked a conversation that just wouldn't end and I some things are learned were of use, others I didn't want to hear about their ( xW and OM) "life" together.

I'm certain (x)W heard what we were talking about because she was in a really BAD mood Sunday morning. She blames it on one of her girlfriends from work giving her a hard time, but, I think something else is at play. (x)BIL is just still very 'at witts end' with (x)W on how she was going about everything with OM in front of our kids and how they were to married and be "so happy" and all that jazz.

EDIT - But after being up all night I was awakened to a lovely "visit" from a case worker for the state investigating S12. EEK! I cordially declined to comment or allow a "search" to take place without (x)W present. That is supposed to happen tonight.

On that front as well, (x)W and I were relaxing after a long day of running around yesterday and watching some TV. Her phone was rather frequently beeping a new message that she try to keep away in sorts from my line of sights. Got a hold of it this morning when she was in the shower and wouldn't you know, OM sending all sorts of B/S messages about "I know you're back with Dylan and all but try not to screw me" and all sorts of other crap regarding bills on the house.

I would be fine with that and would have loved to as I have on previous times I've checked to see no reply in her sent folder, however, it was empty. That doesn't sit well and I'm going to brush on it tonight and see what she says.

Overall, I'm not worried. If there was anything remotely possible, why would she want to get a residence together with me? Why would she basically hand over a pretty decent truck to me no questions asked?

I was also impressed that Saturday night she watched the 'kickoff' to the start of the racing season with me. Before, that was like pulling teeth with her.

So, anywho, that's about it. Nothing major, other than the OM message and nothing in her out bin, but I'm not going to lose sleep over it, he's a putz, end all be all.