I haven't posted in a while because not much is happening. H still in europe. I ignored a couple emails he sent which required no reply. Then, I had to email him because his credit card was expiring the end of January and I was getting notices for lots of things that were on auto-pay which would soon stop without the new info. (some of these expenses affect me also).

He seemed very happy to hear from me after a month of silence on my end. Seems he had been wondering what was going on.

I had offered to send him the card that came in the mail for him but he said he would have one delivered to him there. That was late January.

Then the late notices start coming to my email (because I take care of setting that up & paying the bills). I tried to email him but his mailbox was full.

Then today he left a phone message for me saying he needed his bank account # to activate his card and asked me to email it to him. Well, I couldn't and again, he does not give me his phone number. And that's what bugs me.

On the one hand, I could just email him the info when his mailbox clears, but it bugs me that he calls me when he needs something, but I can't call him. Well, I do have a number where he is staying which I have had for years, but H didn't give me the cell # he has now and he didn't ask me to call anyway.

So I am wondering if I should say something about this, or if it is too trivial to bother with. I know it's a small thing, but sometimes the small things can set the tone for everything.


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