My Story...possible "grass is greener" scenario?

[MrBond]

"But as I said I'm done without a choice. "

You had a choice. But rather than giving her the space it seems like she kept asking for, you kept bugging her. I wouldn't say she was a rageaholic. If someone you didn't like kept bugging you, I think you'd get pissed too.

All you did was get her pissed and now you're saying "oh well I guess it's what I wanted in the first place".

Have you done anything for yourself during all this? You say that you haven't listened to any of the DB seniors so far. Well it's not too late, even though you keep muttering to yourself that it is. If the people on DB have started to lose respect for you, it's no wonder your W has.

Start TODAY. No calling, talking, etc. GAL. Get her respect back by getting your confidence back.