I am finally motivated to write a little today. Maybe its because the sun is finally out and I am almost better from that nasty cold.
This morning was not the best as H and I had a disagreement. He throws out the "you NEVER blah blah" and "I ALWAYS blah blah and it makes me look like the bad guy" as he is heading out the door for work. And of course, I get on the defensive so it was not the best start this morning.
H and I try to set aside Mon nights for talk time but with me and the kids being sick and H working late, it just has not happened. In the last MC session, the therapist asked was there anything we have not been saying to each other to avoid rocking the boat. I said I was still waiting for H to address the questions from last session in which he needed some time to think and H agreed that he has not addressed it yet. So there are some topics we need to talk about. I know our talk time has been pushed aside for the moment as the main focus had been on H's employment & wrongful dismissal case.
Originally Posted By: rockedworld
However, it DOES give you an opportunity to pull together right now. We have been experiencing some huge financial stress and I was worried about how that would impact us while piecing. But, it has actually given us a chance to work together, keep talking, etc. You can turn it into that...
It is amazing how H being laid off has been an opportunity for us to pull together and work as a team. I am pretty impressed how we both have handle this situation together. It does feel good being a "team" again.
