Citygirl, I understand what you are saying, but it is an emotional process. You can tell someone the stages of grief but you won't be able to make them
1)follow the stages in order
2)only stay certain stages for a set amount of time

we each need to have our own process and experience our low point/aha moment to "get it" (IMO).


THANK YOU ALL FOR "WASTING YOUR TIME WITH US NEWBIES :-)"

Last edited by newmama; 02/09/10 09:54 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004