My wife actually wrote in her journal that it was "a sh!tty thing to do" (divorcing me, that is) but she was talking about how hurt she was going to be if her EA friend did not want her for real. She felt like she was "setting herself up for a big disappointment" - NO! REALLY?? what stage of remorse was that I wonder? She wrote that in september I think.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final