Do not spend time w/ her, keep busy, do not call or text less its an emergency reg the family. Do not pressure or pursue- just know that you will be OK w/o her, accept it as best you can and LIVE.
women will string you along as their friend in order to use you YES USE YOU for favors, be their whipping boy, etc. I've seen it over and over.
So you need to flip her the bird (behind her back) and choose one old/new hobby to pour yourself into.
ACTUALLY I BELIEVE MEN IN THESE SITUATIONS SHOULD DATE (But I've only been on this board since November)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
