Luvless this should make you very happy, you've been given a blueprint to work with in your own situation ;-)
I think a LOT of people have!
Britt, I hope you'll strongly consider starting a thread, called maybe "Becoming the WAS ... WORKS!" and sharing your story. There are SO many people who would be helped by it. Robx, Gucci, Gno and many, many others keep screaming from the rooftops, but you are LIVING PROOF that a betrayed spouse can be successful if they can TRULY convey . . . "I'm done."
