There must be a way to get everything arranged, but when I'm angry I can't think clear.
That's why we have the 24/48 hour rule to prevent you from making irrational actions and ensure you're in a clear state of mind.
Originally Posted By: Wholeagain
I have "I wish he was dead" moment. Is it really bad?
It's only bad if you take steps to accomplish that... I sympathize with you on that.
Originally Posted By: Wholeagain
It would have been much easier this way. I want everything sorted out already, but it's impossible to arrange anything with him.
Would it be possible to get a neutral 3rd party involved to help?
Originally Posted By: Wholeagain
How hard is it not to be an ass? He even barricaded my car with iron bars to make sure I won't be able to take it without him.
I'm sorry he's being such a jerk. If this continues perhaps you could politely go to the police and ask them for assistance with this. Tell them you need to go pick up your things from your STBX's house and you're scared. Ask them if a police officer could go with you.
Sure he'll be pissed... but he won't try anything with a police officer there. Make sure you go when you know he will be home. Have your legal ownership papers of the vehicle with you so he cannot dispute ownership.
I hope this nightmare ends for you soon.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
