Really need some advise on this. I plan to "do nothing" for my 26th anniversary coming up on Thursday, 2/11/2010. My question is, if she gets me something or if she asks me, how come no card/flowers/dinner, etc.....what do I do? I know this is going to be difficult for me(to do nothing on that day)but I'm not sure how to respond if she decides to get me something or if she asks why I didn't do anything.
"I have been doing some thinking about my future. I understand you don't want to be married to me. I won't share my wife with another man. I didn't want to get you anything and give you the wrong idea."
drop the rope, don't worry about what she thinks - this is necessary for you to do- DETACH, let her feel the consequences of you moving on. go read what just happened on Britt54's thread.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
