I'm with you there wishbone. That is a tough one to answer. I got the bomb a few weeks after my 25th. I'm curious to read the answers you get because I was going to ask the same question about Valentines Day...I'm in the middle of my 180 and so far no response from W. One more question from me.... before my W went to CA for a weekend by herself??? to think about us she mentioned an interest in going back to couple therapy. Now after returning she hasn't said anything about it... should I bring it up?


Me 56
W 47
D17, D15,D15
Married 28years, in divorce 3 yrs
Bomb 8/20/09
Separated 3 yrs