Really need some advise on this. I plan to "do nothing" for my 26th anniversary coming up on Thursday, 2/11/2010. My question is, if she gets me something or if she asks me, how come no card/flowers/dinner, etc.....what do I do? I know this is going to be difficult for me(to do nothing on that day)but I'm not sure how to respond if she decides to get me something or if she asks why I didn't do anything.
Last year on our 25th..she got 25 red roses from me and a dinner. She then asked me, "Why did you do that?" This was 6 months before our separation. I said what to you mean why did I do that? I love you and it's 25 years...something to celebrate.
Thanks to this forum and for any input on this.....
