Yes I agree, like in the pic of her in the low cut top with her 'Lisa Onedays' poking through, except those werent shop bought! Impressive, but not in a take-you-home-to-mother-share-your-life-with kinda way. Good analogy Kat!
Wow, so your H has been kind of .. acting like a H? Doing dishes, chores, being the man, providing, going shopping with you for stuff he needs (bf does that too!) What are your reasons for saying no sometimes?
In the early months of my reconciliation, bf suggested all kinds of things and I often smiled sweetly and said "sure!" even if I wasnt entirely. But I wanted it to work and I wanted him to feel he had more 'voice' you know? Because I was the one kind of calling the shots before he left. Just something to muse over. xxx