well I am totally shocked and confused but also a little suspicious, ex has not sent a dime our way since he walked out the door, he as moaned constantly whenever he as paid out for anything for his son, he as blown all his inheritance on the wifey,. ex took son shopping last week and spent well over four times the amount he spent on him at xmas, then today son needed school shoes and rugby boots, yes thats my boy doesnt do things by halves he blows two pair of shoes up at the same time, ex takes son shopping again and I told him before they left that if he managed to get him a pair of each I didnt mind going halves with him, so on their return ex phoned me and told me how much it had cost, I said ok fine I will send the money out to you when you come back for son later on this evening, I have just sent my half out to him and lo and behold he as sent it back in and says it doesnt matter he will stand the cost of both pairs. NOW FOLKS THAT IN MY EYES IS A TURN UP FOR THE BOOKS, or am I just waiting for some scheme to erupt,mmmmm one wonders why all the nicey niceyness all of a sudden. I guess because of what ex has done in the past I really have no trust in this guy anymore, although I did thank him and tell him I dont mind paying my share, so I thankyou ex for being a little like your old self today x