I have never understood this. I guess I just don't have it in me to purposely say something to hurt someone's feelings, or make them feel bad.
I get that, but I never thought I did it, but after going thru my sitch, and reflecting on myself, I saw that I did a lot of what your H has done. I know I complained a lot, and I realized how I had not been an encourager, but instead a destroyer. But I don't think I ever had anyone really talk to me about it.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
