um no. unless you choose to be the vengefull type. My H slept with me many times, but there was definitely no touching involved. I cried silently so many times while he was next to me. many times I would be shaking so bad throughout the night and couldn't stop. But, I was never vengefull, and although I had my month of blaming him and pleading and crying, I never went crazy on him, I was just major depressed and mostly quiet, and again, it only lasted a month.
So, IMHO, he still loves you luv, but he doesn't think he's "IN" love with you, because he's living for his feelings now, but he's very confused. otherwise, he would have moved out, gone to a L and got the D.
fyi, remember, no assumptions, it is quite possible that he did get called into HR, or maybe she is threatening him since you contacted her...who knows. half the time we really have no clue what is really going on, only God knows.
I'm glad it was a good night for the most part.
NOW, start LIVING the knowledge that you have gained here, and get it outside your mind and into your heart.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
