OK, been thinking, it's her intelligence specifically that upsets you? Right? Is there anything, I mean anything that you can bond on???
I mean crazy things like watching the same tv show, watching animal planet or fiction books (an aside- I really got into Muslim women biographies for a while, former librarian here)
Something as kooky as crafting scrap books of the children's memories, cooking fun creative meals together, bowling league, making an awesome gardenm giving each other nice massages, going to Karate together....
Something, anything to bond on.
How is your religious beliefs different. I am Protestant and hubby is Catholic- not a biggie for us but I know for so it can be....
I just hate for you to throw it all away b4 giving it one last try...
Also, you had mentioned earlier- she had stated things can not continue the way they are- What things?
Last edited by june72; 02/09/1007:23 PM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
