The CS papers were delivered this morning and now I am getting slammed with texts on what a piece of trash I am etc...
How I never made him happy and if I did he would still be here...
I suck, I am a b***h, I can't do anything right, all my fault...He has NEVER been happy...He faked for 20 years and realized it when she came into his life.
Blah blah blah.... It's all BS. He's lashing out in anger with the intent to hurt.
I know this, you know this... we all know this.
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
Can't breathe...I know I shouldn't allow him to affect me but damn those words are killing me.
I hear you S. And it's easy to say, "forget about it" but the most difficult thing to do.
It's time for you to get busy... very busy... with GAL. Get energetic, find a punching bag and let it have it.
He is LYING. The choice is ours to give those lies credit or to laugh them off. I'd say laugh them off because underneath all those lies is a pityful little boy having a tantrum because you're not towing the line anymore. Let him boohoo in the corner.
(((( Serenity )))))
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
(((Serenity))) do NOT let that man's lies about you sink in. You are SOOOO not the person he is accusing you of being. Stand true in what you know about you.
That man is one lost, pathetic soul and you deserve so much more!
I started this he said...But he doesn't have to pay because we each have a son now....WTF does that mean??? I knew I shouldn't have let my oldest go but did I trust my instincts no...Now look a bigger friggen mess then yesterday...And I am at work and I am just...
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Going to be fine and dandy. No more lies to cloud your mind.
Go staple some thick reports... you know... the ones where you really have to bang the stapler. Use your imagination and believe me you'll feel a little better.
He's full of chit, and you know that. Do NOT let him, in his fogged-out, poor-character, define YOU.
I know it hurts, but this is all 'SCRIPT'. My wife told me, at various times after serving her, that she "hated" me, that I "made her physically ill," that she "would never, EVER stay married to me" (this was 2-1/2 years ago, and -- as I type this -- we are exchanging TMs from where we want to spend Valentine's Day), and many more ugly, UGLY things that I won't even dignify with transcribing them here.
Your husband is feeling angry, embarrassed, guilty and entitled -- all mixed into one. IGNORE HIS TEXTS. If/when you see him, just do the "smile-and-wave" thing that SmileysPerson used to talk about, and the "I'm really sorry you feel that way," and move along.
Seriously, he's not worth your angst right now. He doesn't DESERVE it.
Stop responding or looking at the texts. Turn your phone off. Hurting people say hurtful things. Your H is very lost right now, not your problem to fix. Keep Serenity thriving in the face of adversity. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Understandable but how could he say something so very mean and hateful...To wish my death by the hands of our S? I am not that bad of a person I really really am not.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
