nikblondiew I went back and started reading your first thread, the first thing that caught my eye is that your H was going to address his drinking. I hope that happened. I will read more when I get home.
Just so ya know the book my quote is from is an Al-anon book. Are you familiar? If your H has a drinking problem you might want to check out a meeting.
PS I know I may be a day late and a dollar short, I really will read more of your sitch when I get home
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011