Ok, maybe I am venting too much here cause there are somethings I dont report much about.
Right now, he has NO Problem talking about the future. I am the one that stops him (when I stopped supporting him about the car he wanted to change, he dropped the idea) agreed to get a dog etc etc. I am hesitant.
His LL is AOS and he does that for me. He washes the dishes, cooks, studies with kids on the weekens and lets me sleep, my coffe is ready when I get up, suggests we go out (I have denied a couple of times), wants me to spend time with his dad and sister (I am still not very fond of that), agreed to change the kitchen cabinets if I want to (he pays), buys anything I ask or say I want for the hosue, the kids etc, calls when I am gone and asks if I want something from the supermarket, asks about my dad, has lunches with my familt even when I am gone, suggested I leave town if I need time to feel better, to decompress, when he wants to buy somethig fro himself waits until the weekend so we can do it together etc etc.
