He's full of chit, and you know that. Do NOT let him, in his fogged-out, poor-character, define YOU.
I know it hurts, but this is all 'SCRIPT'. My wife told me, at various times after serving her, that she "hated" me, that I "made her physically ill," that she "would never, EVER stay married to me" (this was 2-1/2 years ago, and -- as I type this -- we are exchanging TMs from where we want to spend Valentine's Day), and many more ugly, UGLY things that I won't even dignify with transcribing them here.
Your husband is feeling angry, embarrassed, guilty and entitled -- all mixed into one. IGNORE HIS TEXTS. If/when you see him, just do the "smile-and-wave" thing that SmileysPerson used to talk about, and the "I'm really sorry you feel that way," and move along.
Seriously, he's not worth your angst right now. He doesn't DESERVE it.
