So sorry to hear about your circumstances. I for one went on here everyday mostly to hear your advice. So i agree with Mindfull. You are truly one of the best on here. Pretend for a moment that this was my situation. What would you say to me? Type it out as if you're answering to my thread. You will then know its from your own heart and what you truly believe in yourself.
I feel when someone starts lying about medical problems, there is a serious problem within themselves. Little white lies can be harmless here and there, but now its not harmless anymore. She is toying with the well being of herself and you as well. Not cool. Be proud of who you are and how you have been in this situation. Many people could only hope to have 1/10 of the strength you have. You will get through this, stay strong.
I think its time to do some serious business. This is definitely not healthy anymore. I realize you want your M to work. Believe me...I get that. I was willing to put my life happiness aside for it. But I finally realized that's insane. I think you know what you need to do. You of all people definitely know what needs to happen now. And I know you have the strength to do it. I admire that about you.
Once again, my thoughts and prayers are with you..I will be thinking about you.
Britt
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
