Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Rocked - right now, I don't want to think about a boundary or not, but my initial inclination is I need evidence...but there is just too much other baggage in the household right now.

I just got caught up on your sitch and wish I had done it sooner. Learned something from you again...I fell back into trying to fix W last night and I'm sure it came across as controlling. I did stop and let go, but probably not soon enough.

I control through fixing things and doing too many acts of kindness and W controls through mood swings and temper. Kind of a screwed up R isn't it. This has got me kind of thinking do I really want to go through with this. My gosh, I can't believe you and Rabbit kept it up for a year.