On thursday we have Financial Neutral Evaluation (not exactly sure what that is). I am meeting with my L in a couple of hours to discuss how things will go and I will know more of the process then. So if there is an agreement on thursday the D should be finalized whenever judge signs off.
Not sure what else I could have done to stop the D. I let my wife go and she decided that this is what was best for her. The last I heard from her was on 1/5. It has been 8 mos post bomb and 7 mos since separation. Since then I have seen her 3 times and have had email/text/phone contact with her maybe 10 times in the past 7 mos.
Just so you know I am listening PDT I cancelled the gym membership without letting her sign up for her own.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
