BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3

[faithisbelieving]

Trusting....Have you ever read or seen Dr. Gray's book, Venus and Mars, Starting Over? I highly recommend it if you haven't.

There is still too much focus on H and not enough on you. There is a tendency here on DB, this thread included, to label the WAS as crazy, in MLC land, he'll get his, etc.

My advice is to try and break free and move forward.

Yes, he is wrong to communicate thru the kids.

Yes, he may be projecting himself onto you.

Yes, it IS possible that this OW may not last.

Now..back to reality. The anger you are feeling is normal and healthy. In fact, it seems like if it took this long to come out that it was repressed and holding you back.

I have found, that, sometimes, the more we think, rationalize, analyze, etc...the worse off we are. Sometimes, the best thing we can do is to accept what happened and log it in as part of our life history, grieve it and put it up on the shelf.

Now, what about you? What are YOU going to do with your kids for 2 weeks? Are you dating? Dancing?

Stay tough.

FIB