Timeline? End of Feb 2011. That is the end. A year from now. Dont ask me why, that's it. I'll be 40 on March 3rd 2011.
This is great to have a time line. That will be over 3 years since you came on this board. Maybe you should share the requirements and objective with him. The drawback is he may then decide that he can slack off until that time. Maybe you should come up with some incremental milestones.
I can smell BS from across the ocean. There is something wrong or fishy going on with this guy if he cant complement or find attraction towards you. For someone that has done what he has done, he sure is not doing much to rebuild his marriage. He does throw you the occasional crumb which keeps you hanging on. And arguing in front of the kids is setting a bad example that they may follow themselves.
Has he suggested any family vacations for summer?
What has he done on his own to show you his love and commitment?
