Finding that balance between "caretaking", "mothering" vs. being supportive and caring is hard...
I am realizing too my H has his own part in it. There are times when he pretty much asks to be mothered, and I am going to have to be lovingly firm about not getting pulled into that when I see it. I can only be responsible for me!
Last night was better, H and I were both in better moods, watched a movie together with S15, had some good laughs, some teasing and joking.