MF - Can I come visit the yellow beach house even if I'm not a mom? I won't stay long because all the kids will drive me crazy, but an occasional cocktail would be fun!
RW - keep rereading the detachment article on Livestrong. It helps with the distinction.
Yes Pearl, you are invited! I printed off that article and keep it with me in my journal to re-read often. I think it's sinking in more! I want to explore with my IC why it is so hard for me.