how do i keep my hope alive?

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Hi, I've never commented on your thread, but just caught up quickly and all I can say is that as scary as it is to think of living alone, if you really want to make this marriage work, then sometimes it is necessary. If your H isn't in the place you want him to be yet, distance may very well put him there. I come from an experience where H left for two and half months. Not very long compared to some others on this site, but let me tell you how many wonders it did for our marriage. Had we not separated, we would not be where we are today. It really can do wonders for you. And if it doesn't that's okay too. Because regardless, you will learn alot about yourself as well. Which can help you in the future, with or without your H. Keep your head up. You sound like you are in a good place!