(((P17))) Good luck! Watch out for her pushing your buttons and watch out for anything you discuss that could be used legally against you (or for you)
I am going to look at secretly recording the meeting assuming I can find my digital voice recorder!
IC has suggested that I give no information away (as that gives power to the other person) and I answer any question she has with another question (as that doesn't give control of the conversation away to the other person).
Good tips
I also should stick to what I want to know or get across. No idle chit chat. No 'how are you's.
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And if this isn't the best reason to file for divorce, then I don't know what is:
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Worst case - I can't think of any.
I hadn't thought about the worst case before. I honestly can't think of anything other than the potential breakdown / going off the rails that most divorcees seem to go through at some point if my conversations and readings are to be believed. That scares me.
There is no financial worst case or emotional worst case. It just means I legally have what I have now - being on my own!
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
