AYK I would not go to the house anymore. I would cover your butt and have a neutral meeting place. Have set drop offs and pick ups, times, etc.
You be there. If they are there, great. If not, well, you were there. Document it. Seriously. I am afraid that some of this stuff is going to end up backfiring on you and getting you into trouble that you don't need and aren't really looking for.
I would also cut all txts and emails about ANYTHING except direct important things about the kids immediate health or something urgent.
If she is not delivering them for your visitations, document it, keep it for your attny. and move on. Then she will be digging her own hole. You need to be staying above the ground
I agree, do not fight your daughter and her. You cannot control them. You control you and cover your butt.
They have an awesome ability to try to twist and turn EVERYTHING as you know. I would never enter that house again. You are putting yourself in dangerous situations if W and D twist the truth.
As far as her being the meanest, a lot of them are very mean and vengeful. I'm dealing with a hugely vengeful one right now. And I am having to cover my butt and try to build a case. You need to keep yourself squeaky clean...
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
