snodderly, Thank you for your support as always. Today I am searching again for the "why" in all of this...maybe because of my bad day yesterday. I understand I made the NC happen, I just wish I knew what was in my H's head right now. I wish I had a crystal ball.
Originally Posted By: snodderly
the one that always stands out for me is that everything he has left behind are reminders of his past life and just like an onion, he has peeled the old layer away and does not want the reminders right now.
This would make sense to me if this was the first time leaving so to speak. The clothes that are here are part of the many new clothes he has purchased since he left. I don't see how they could remind him of his past life. Could he be trying to run away from his "old" new life?
